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29th June 2011

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I think it’s funny :P

I think it’s funny when people decide to only blame not hanging out with someone because of their significant other. So I’m going to do my little take on an worldwide web post sooo each and every person who follows me can see it and wonder why I’m ranting.

Let’s think about the different reasons why someone would cancel on some plans. 1) Could be that they are working multiple jobs so save up for a trip at the end of the month to do with a friend and their parents aren’t supporting it. 2) Could be that things just didn’t fall into place. (Try next time). 3) Maybe the they are just fed up with all the bull shit and sick of the inconsiderate things that are coming from that friend. From stupid drama, to broken promises, from dropped hopes, to missing out on other hang outs that they said they would do?, to missing an important grad party after they stayed the day before help out early, cut food, set up, and even try to make a good impression on their brother cause they were excited to meet em. They even called only once to see if they were coming not expecting for a long stay at all….

So before they let the world know why is it hard to lose friends and blaming it on dating another. Try checking the more important details like the issues that only fall between you and the person themselves not who they are with. Because I’m pretty sure u can agree it all comes down to what an individuels chooses to do. And coming from me, good friends think outside the box and give the benifit of the doubt, and show patience when it comes to even the darkest times. If you can’t even do that it’s just a waste of time.